Why does Conflict between Men and Women Frequently Emerge?

Feeling difficult in understanding your partner? Do you think sometimes you have no idea how to cope with your girlfriend/boyriend’s wants, hopes, and responses? Or the most dramatic one is will they emerge serious conflicts that threaten your relationship unless you instantly handle them?

Some people might think so. This is very common in a relationship, between man and woman. So, if you are in such trouble, congratulation! You are not alone! There are people outside finding it is so hard in maintaining a wonderful relationship that they only have at least two options: give up and break the relationship as you think your partner cannot understand you any longer and vice versa; or choose to strongly stand with your belief that there must be solutions in ‘fixing’ them up.

Be sure, Guys! Everything does not stand alone. A problem must be accompanied with its solution. Firts stuff that you are going to realize is that the cause of it. It is not likely to find the way out without knowing the main factor triggering it. So, are you curious why those happen?

Well, a problem or conflict must happen because there is a difference. It can be a difference in the field of point of view, feelings, hopes, wants, and many more. And why did all happen? There must be something fundamental that has a big chance to let all of such dreadful things to happen. Can you guess what it is?

Very easy answer will absolutely be gender and sexual differences. They are contributing the biggest portion of conflict in a realtionship to come up. But how come it works? Do you think the nature surely had made it that way? LOL

Logical explanation uttered by John Gray through his very famous book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, is that different sex has its own way of thinking, reacting, and responding. Thus, it is not surprising at all when we are disappointed, angry, or sad when our partner does not think, react, and respond the way we think they should do. The more important thing to do is we have to find the right way in reacting and responding such common problems. Unfortunately, only a few of us know how to well react.

To view this, most of us are sometimes driven to let our negative feeling to come up and little conflict inevitably start to emerge. The pile of little conflict day to day can be a mess one day when it is not immeadiately handled. In fact, we do not want things to get worse, do we?

Then, what do you think we should do? Of course our knowledge and insights about the natural difference between men and women. So, are you ready in looking for the differences between men and women? Have you found the best way in solving or anticipating such conflicts-emerging differences in your relationship? And the principal one is are you ready to well react for such problems as a way to create a lovely and wonderful relationship?

It is urged to do as most wise men have agreed that romantic relationship is not found, it is created.